As someone who spent almost a decade trying to find love, it was not easy. Before my boyfriend came into my life, it seemed nearly impossible to find a decent guy.
All the guys I attracted seemed to either not want a relationship, wanted friends with benefits, or just saw me as a friend. And so, by March of 2021, I was fed up and decided it was time to focus my attention on other things.
And so, with that said, for today’s post, I’ll be sharing something my mom always told me. Which is “Love happens when you least expect it’.
Did I always believe in the phrase Love happens when you least expect it?
For the longest time, I did not believe in it. It seemed that things like that only happened to people on TV. Or the few lucky ones in real life. And so, having that mindset, I doubted myself in finding love. The idea that it would ever happen to me seemed out of reach.
What made me change my mind?
Most definitely, it would have to be my boyfriend.
Finding him made me realize there is someone out there for everyone. And that life is full of surprises.
Any advice to someone who wants to find love?
Finding love and a connection with someone can be a blessing. And so, if you find yourself in a situation where you want a relationship, do not sweat it. Let the universe do its thing, and keep living your life.
But on the other hand, if you’re tired of waiting around for Mr. or Ms. Perfect, you can always try online dating sites. Or apps like Meetup that help you to connect with people. In your area, that may be new to the city or locals looking for new friends.
In conclusion…
There’s no manual on what’s wrong or right for love. You can find it at the grocery store or anywhere else. So the next time you feel down about being single, remember that things happen for a reason. And so, use your time wisely. To work on building and bettering yourself. So that when you do meet someone, you’ll have your stuff together.
With that said, if you all enjoyed this post, leave your comments and thoughts below. Along with that, remember to share this post because sharing is caring. Until next time, have a great day, and remember that it is different for everyone. Toodles!
Great article. I’m glad you found love.
It is true that loves happens when you least expect it but you have to put on the work in bettering yourself. Thanks for sharing.